Dug up memories and nothing to show for it
I grew up in the care system. I never expected to receive anything from my birth family. I had contact pretty much out of the blue regarding a blood relative passing and an inheritance that would be shared between immediate family. Myself being one of those. After much back and forth of info, which for me brought up alot of memories and feelings that I had long since dealt with, there has been no progress. All it has resulted in is another channel of too much thinking and upset which I would rather had been left where it was.